None
of us is perfect – children to adults. From the president whose affairs make
headlines to the friend who does not take the car keys away from a buddy who
has had too much to drink, we all do things we regret later.
Why?
Why do we at times react emotionally rather than respond rationally?
The
answer lies in the brain, the way it’s wired, and the short-circuiting that
occurs when we don’t stop to think.
BrainWise™
course makes it easy to understand the brain and why people act the way they
do. Termed the 10 Wise Ways (http://www.gurukidspro.com/brainwise-singapore.htm), each way explains how it is part of our
problem-solving process.
If
the letters of the alphabet are a reading tool, the 10 Wise Ways are a thinking
tool. Like letters, these concepts are easy to remember, but knowing them does
not men you know how to think. It’s just like knowing the alphabet does not
mean one knows how to read. We use the Wise Ways to learn how to think in the
same way you use letters to learn to read.
You
had depended on your family and other adults in your life to teach you how to
think. If you were raised in a family or an environment where people hadn’t
learnt thinking skills, or had learnt them incompletely, you probably grew up
without learning important problem-solving strategies.
Until
now, this information has been a well-kept secret – not because people who know
about thinking skills won’t share them, but because people who have learnt how
to make good choices and decisions are unaware that they learnt skills others
have not. They do not realize that people who respond using emotions and impulse
are acting on basic “fight or flight” instincts, the only response they know. BrainWise™
lets you in on this secret. The 10 Wise Ways will teach your children how to
stop and think, helping them make better choices so they (and you) have fewer
problems.
BrainWise™
course will help your children quickly grasp these techniques and use them in
their daily lives. Better yet, they will have the tools to teach these
important skills to you and others.
The
ideas BrainWise™ presents are universal and can be applied to any problem
situation. You may already know or be familiar with many thinking skills. This
course will help you and your children understand how the 10 Wise Ways work,
why they are important, and how you and your children can incorporate critical thinking
into everyday life.
Today,
ways to prevent problems are not systematically taught at home and school. The BrainWise™
programme has given thousands of parents, educators, counsellors, social
workers, and many others the methods to teach the skills necessary to stop and
think. They have found the techniques useful for everyone, regardless of race,
age, or culture.
As
with all learnt skills, the more you and your children use them, the better all
of you will become. It takes practice to master thinking, but soon you will be
automatically stop and think before you react. This AHA! experience will make
your life and your loved ones’ lives at home, work and school happier, healthier,
and more productive.
Parts
of this article are excerpts from the book How to be BrainWise™ – The Proven
Method for Making Smart Choices by Dr Patricia Gorman Barry.
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